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Get Ex Back With Friendship

trying with friendship

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Recently a young woman wrote to me to tell me that her boyfriend has broken up with her and that she cannot live without him and therefore wants to remain friends with him. It was her way of staying in touch with him, i.e. stay close by, even if a love relationship was no longer possible.

Naturally I advised her against it! Why?

  1. It is always very painful to keep (more…)

Help From Friends and Relatives?

Help from friends and relatives

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Frequently people ask whether you should seek help from a friend and totally rely on it when going through a separation. Because, obviously, the partner is no longer there.

The answer is: In principle, YES, but it’s the intensity that’s crucial! Therefore “looking for advice” from friends is completely okay. However, you should try – even with friends – to do more than just “whine” about the loss you have suffered, (more…)

By | 2016-11-22T16:28:58+00:00 29. November 2014|Categories: Break-up Mistakes|Tags: , , , , |0 Comments

Is meeting up with an ex a good idea?

ex back

Source: FlickrCC Author: Roxanna Salceda

You would like to meet up with your ex! Many deserted partners want to do this. I would definitely counsel you not to.

Often these meetings end in fruitless discussions about the relationship. This type of discussion is not going to help you at the present time.

Therefore my advice: DON’T MEET UP. Not in your present condition.

 

By | 2016-11-22T16:28:59+00:00 27. November 2014|Categories: Break-up Mistakes|Tags: |0 Comments
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